since you voiced your suspicion about maybe having opened Pandora's box by bringing up Coni , lol , I can't say I disagree . .
No beef , yet according to my experience it is often more thing of the girls to make nasty remarks about boys when they're out of earshot , yet in this case
I have voiced my suspicion that she 'slept herself up the ladder' . . . .
Maybe a job in the . . ahemm . . 'horizontal business' would have gained her more . . .