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Old December 24th, 2010 #7
Lily
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I certainly don't disagree with anything said, especially the part about men becoming more attractive with age.
I also failed to include that the issues that arise can easily be overcome with love, understanding and communication along with occasionally having to put one's foot down. (His, not mine, lol.)
As a young woman, I had to hit some brick walls to outgrow some nuances for sure that a much younger man would likely not have been able to break due to lack of life experience or being solid in where he is and where he stands.
I have had moments of sheer frustration, down right brattiness to be honest, testing the waters. Shame on me, I know.
I wouldn't trade him for the world but I think what bothers me in the end is that I fear losing him and becoming a widow earlier than most.
I understand that none of us are gonna make it out of here alive and any of us can go at any time and if SHTF....
I am woman though and emotional.
Think too much too.