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Old December 20th, 2008 #61
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It is because everyone has their heads up their bums. Back when it was normal for women to stay at home, people would look at working mothers the same way they look at stay at home moms now. I know when I say I am a stay at home mom to anyone, 95% of responses are usually 'okay' but with that look in their eyes like they think I am lazy and weird. But then I will get responses from the other 5% who wish they could stay at home as well. When this whole entire campaign of woman's rights and kikish bs about how women are as good if not better than men, is when people started having a problem with stay at home mothers. I can even tell my father thinks I should be out working. I told him I will not until my children are in school, and if at that time I do decide to work then it will fit around my childrens schedule, where I take them to school, go to work and get off of work 30 minutes before they get out of school so I can pick them up. That is the only way I will work, outside of my house that is. People work not for money in order to buy food and things they need but to purchase that billion dollar house and 5 cars and wardrobes of shoes and clothes they don't ever wear and 5 rooms of toys for their kids, who can care less about any of them. Materialism is what screwed over the stay at home mothers.
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Old December 20th, 2008 #62
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You're right about that April. My mother did feel marginalized in many ways and did not have a circle of friends (wives with families) that supported her. The church, for instance, bullied her into lots of activities because of her status. It's no wonder that women feel a need to prove themselves in the workplace - both because of the self esteem they get and the independence that the money brings.
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Old December 20th, 2008 #63
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I know when I say I am a stay at home mom to anyone, 95% of responses are usually 'okay' but with that look in their eyes like they think I am lazy and weird. But then I will get responses from the other 5% who wish they could stay at home as well.
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People work not for money in order to buy food and things they need but to purchase that billion dollar house and 5 cars and wardrobes of shoes and clothes they don't ever wear and 5 rooms of toys for their kids, who can care less about any of them. Materialism is what screwed over the stay at home mothers.
Materialism is fine if you direct the desire towards materials with proper priority and allocate resources accordingly.

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Old December 20th, 2008 #64
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Materialism is fine if you direct the desire towards materials with proper priority and allocate resources accordingly.
As with all things, in moderation.

A lot of good points have been raised in this thread, especially so many that reveal the fallacies of popular perception regarding motherhood. If she's doing her job properly, a dedicated wife, mother and homemaker works twice as hard as any woman in the workforce and she deserves the natural rewards that her family affords her. Laziness has nothing to do with it. What is there in the workforce? To be a wage slave, a lemming, human veal in a cubicle? Most jobs are unnatural and psychologically damaging to anyone of substantial intelligence and character. Just consider most working women: they're miserable, lonely and pathetic - fucked in the head and unable to personally interact with normal people in a functional manner. Exceptions exist among the successful, motivated self-employed of either gender, of course.

Summer and April should be proud of themselves, not only because they're upholding and instilling proper social values in their children, not only because they're a credit to their race and respective ethnicities, but because by taking a healthy traditional role, they're doing what's right for themselves. They've learned to ignore the brainless drivel fed like so much candy to kwans.
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Old January 2nd, 2009 #65
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I'm sure everyone here recognizes that women are meant to be followers and easily led--that is not a bad thing, it is simply our nature. It is men who create civilization; when it crumbles, it is largely the fault of men (neglect, giving in to passions, etc.). Men are the ones who need to regain their footing and navigate society back to its proper orientation. If women were told by the community that it was best they stayed at home with their children--for all sorts of reasons--they would do so.

The challenge for women is figuring out exactly to whom we should listen. It is no accident that in Greek, Sophia, or Wisdom is feminine. Wisdom is knowing where to find the teacher or source of truth. These days, few men are teaching the truth, and women are listening to the wrong voices.
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I'm sure everyone here recognizes that women are meant to be followers and easily led--that is not a bad thing, it is simply our nature.
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These days, few men are teaching the truth, and women are listening to the wrong voices.
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