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Old November 5th, 2018 #1
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Angry Stalking should bear harsher punishment

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Stalking


You may know that I'm a married man . . . . recently being bugged and tracked down by an . . .ahemm . . .annoying female.

What are these people thinking ( if they think at all . . .)?
Can they not accept someone is taken ?

Long story short . . .
Was in a pub around the corner with some friends the other day and one female I had noticed sitting all alone at the bar for most of the evening.

Now , was trying to integrate her ( helpfulness somehow is just a trademark of us hanseatic peoples ) as I had never seen her on my block before.

We had a few drinks ( with every drink she . .ahemm . . seemed to grow "more open" . .)

We even played a round of dart together during the evening and somehow she seemed to have mistaken that for my attention belonging solely to her for the rest of the evening.
Unluckily we even exchanged cell phone numbers ( hey , when a bit inebriated you don't really care . . .)

Now . . .

How to deal with this ?

Should I change my cell phone number just because of that?
Some days ago she called when I was under the shower.
My cell phone just doesn't happen to have an ignore function ( didn't count on cases like that back then . . .)
I suppose she would even call while I'm out on the motorway.

Damn stalker.

And quite a pushy one at that.

You give 'em two fingers , they'll take the whole hand.

Frustrated . . .

Needed to vent . . .


 
Old November 5th, 2018 #2
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So.... You gave a woman your phone number, and she tried calling you? That's not stalking.
 
Old November 5th, 2018 #3
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So.... You gave a woman your phone number, and she tried calling you? That's not stalking.
You misunderstood , friend . . .

She hangs on me.

In the beginning I even , well , 'mistook' it as , how should I say . . ."friendly exchange" ? ?

But then she started becoming insistent.

Don't know who has made that experience around here already , yet some people . . .
 
Old November 5th, 2018 #4
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So, you led some woman on, and she called you a few times? I don't see where the stalking is. It sounds like you are just fantasizing that she is.
 
Old November 5th, 2018 #5
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It didn't even take ten minutes and already the first PMs were there.

It appears such experiences are more common than one might think . .

One of which I'd like to answer . . .

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such people will never get off you unless they face charges.

Sad as that may sound.

Don't know if you feel any smypathies for her (especially after what happened) yet this is the best advice I can give though.

Cheers
All I can say is . . you try it in a nice way . . you get the reward .
 
Old November 5th, 2018 #6
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So, you led some woman on, and she called you a few times? I don't see where the stalking is. It sounds like you are just fantasizing that she is.
Sorry , but . . do you think I'm out of touch with reality ?

5 up to 6 calls a day ?

Hmmm ?
 
Old November 5th, 2018 #7
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Oh , and Dan . .

If that's how you view it . .fine.

We all have different perceptions of things.

Yet , I suppose had some guys witnessed the whole thing 'live' they might draw their conclusions . .

Even the three PM's I received concerning that put the things in a differing spotlight . .

Yet , what most seem to agree on . . Stalking = bullshit
 
Old November 5th, 2018 #8
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Oh ,and I know , relationships can often lead one to things which one never would have expected . .

I. e. bringing you into trouble . .

Troubles you didn't have before that . .

Pretty much as described in this song . .


 
Old November 5th, 2018 #9
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Is this girl hot? If so maybe give her MY number! Maybe then I'd stop crushing on a certain girl band.
 
Old November 5th, 2018 #10
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Is this girl hot? If so maybe give her MY
number! Maybe then I'd stop crushing on a certain girl band.
Oh , the self-irony . . .

She certainly looks better than the gook bitches.


. . but then , no big deed to begin with.


Jeff , I do not know what your fetishism for gook broads is based on ( or your fetishism for chicks dressing as nurses . . . ) .

. . yet concerning the bimbo mentioned above .

Are you familiar with the German actress Meret Becker?


. . she looks close.

Your taste?

I wouldn't really view it as my assignment to "cure" you of your gook fetishism , yet it is most annoying .

Oh , and you HAVE thought through that the 'big pond' is parting you ?


. . though I'd rather see you marry her than . . you know . . .

 
Old November 5th, 2018 #11
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Oh , and Jeff

Should your fetishism for gook bitches run so deep , why not go to Asian Hip Hopper Chuckie Akenz and ask if he could spare some for you ?




Now , I despise Akenz and also voiced the fact that Hip Hop ( the idea behind it ) is European in origin ( https://vnnforum.com/showthread.php?t=549180 ) yet I somehow have to chuckle about this vid since the band of gooks do away with some Negroe buggers in it . .

But . . guess what Jeff . .

We already went through this topic in this thread https://vnnforum.com/showthread.php?t=551472 and this https://vnnforum.com/showthread.php?...43#post2255343 . .

I'd prefer you answer my PM . .

Oh ,and spare me graphic details concerning your proclivity for "them gook bitches" . .

I gave you an up-thumbee because of your self-irony in above post though . .
 
Old November 6th, 2018 #12
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This may seem obvious, but did you, um, tell her in no uncertain terms to stop calling you? As in, "Stop calling me!" then hang up?
 
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This may seem obvious . .
. . better believe it is , pal . . . she called me 10 times today , guess what , a new record.

Wonder if she will hit the ten times plus mark.

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. . .but did you, um, tell her in no uncertain terms to stop calling you? As in, "Stop calling me!" then hang up?
She is not interested in what I say.

Guess what , I didn't want to hurt her feelings , and put it . . ahemm . . . 'mildly'.

As I did the second time.

Now , if people provoke you the second time , you might get . . well . . . .

I don't really know any way out of the situation . . .
 
Old November 7th, 2018 #14
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I don't really know any way out of the situation . . .
I thought of solving the situation today . . . when I returned from work ( I have an 8 hour shift ) and saw the . . ahemmmmm . . load of unanswered cell phone calls trying to reach me via cell phone during shift . .

( we are forbidden to operate / access cell phones during our work shift . .)


I thought "This needs to be solved . ." . .

Went into the lion's den.

I invited her to take a ride . . . we met at about 6 o' clock before a bakery in our town and drove towards 'free nature'.

During the ride , I think I could convince her what the deal was . . Even though she was more intrusive than ever.

She promised not to call anymore.

Ummm . . wow

Stalking sure is a most annoying thing. .

Sometimes you got to face things , i. e. taking people for a ride to have some private time with them. .


. . free from others.

I suppose , had my wife been present , I would never have found the right words . . . especially had I had my cell phone on louspeaker.

You won't believe the words the little brat used ( translated from German )

"Break your marriage for me"

"Let's move in together"

. . . even stuff like "I saw you in my dreams . . ."

I think this is the most annoying brat I have ever come across ( well , apart from Coni : https://vnnforum.com/showthread.php?...18#post2252418 )


Edit: I'm grateful for all the condolence via PM though lol . .

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Old November 7th, 2018 #15
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>I invited her to take a ride . . . we met at about 6 o' clock before a bakery in our town and drove towards 'free nature'.
She's not stalking you. You were leading her on and being a total douche about it. I knew this was just some fantasy of yours. Maybe you want to cheat on your wife, but have cold feet and this is your way of justifying your "mental infidelity" or maybe you did cheat and this is just a cover story.
 
Old November 7th, 2018 #16
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>I invited her to take a ride . . . we met at about 6 o' clock before a bakery in our town and drove towards 'free nature'.
She's not stalking you. You were leading her on and being a total douche about it. I knew this was just some fantasy of yours. Maybe you want to cheat on your wife, but have cold feet and this is your way of justifying your "mental infidelity" or maybe you did cheat and this is just a cover story.
Gotta say , Dan, you are a very distrustful person. .

Or , read that, OR are you just looking for ANY way to put me down by interpreting things into my story , even if it is in the most abstract way?


Hmmm ?

I thank thee . .
 
Old November 7th, 2018 #17
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Oh , and Dan

While I can FULLY understand people being sceptic about certain stuff being posted on the internet ( a lot of garbage is posted online nowadays , lol . .) I do not really see what your problem is supposed to be buying this recap . .

I would prefer , should doubts on your side be present , that we solve this via PM if you don't mind since this thread is meant to demonstrate the problem of stalking in general . .

Thank you.
 
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I wouldn't mind a hit chick at this point stalk me who has the hots for me! I'm single.
 
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